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Saturday, 13 February 2010 很多人以為是因為感情淡了，所以人才會变得懶惰。错！其实是人先被 惰性征服，所以感情才會变淡的。在某个聚餐的場合，有人提議多吃點 蝦子對身體好，這時候有个中年男人：十年前，当我的老婆还是我的女朋友 的時候，她说要吃十只蝦，我就剝二十只給她！現在，如果她要我幫她剝蝦殼， 开玩笑，我连幫她脫衣服都沒兴趣了，还剝蝦殼咧！ 听到了嗎？难怪越來越多人只想要谈一輩子的戀愛，卻迟迟不肯走入婚姻。 因為，婚姻容易让人变得懶惰。如果每个人都懶得讲话、懶得傾聽、 懶得製造驚喜、懶得溫柔體貼，那麼夫妻或是情人之间，又怎麼會不漸行 漸遠漸無聲呢？所以请记住：有力的愛情，是需要適度殷勤灌溉的，谈戀愛， 更是不可以偷懶的喔！ 有一对情侶，相約下班后去用餐、逛街，可是女孩因為公司会议而延误了， 當她冒著雨趕到的時候已經迟到了30多分钟，他的男朋友很不高兴的说： 「妳每次都这样，現在我甚麼心情也沒了，我以後再也不会等妳了！」 剎那间，女孩終於決堤崩潰，她心里想：或许，他们再也沒有未來了！ 同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侶也面臨同樣的處境；女孩趕到的時候也 迟到了半个钟头，他的男朋友说：「我想妳一定忙坏了吧！」接着他为 女孩拭去臉上的雨水，並且脫去外套蓋在女孩身上，此刻，女孩流淚了！ 但是流過她臉頰的淚卻是溫馨的，你體会到了嗎？ 其实愛、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！愛不僅要懂得寬容更需及時， 很多事可能只是在於你心境的轉变罷了！你懂了嗎？ 愛一个人要了解，也要开解；要道歉，也要道谢；要认错，也要改错； 要體貼，也要體谅；是接受，而不是忍受；是寬容，而不是縱容；是支持， 而不是支配；是慰问，而不是質问；是傾诉，而不是控诉；是难忘， 而不是遗忘；是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；是为对方默默祈求，而不是 向對方诸多要求；可以浪漫，但不要浪费；可以隨時牽手，但不要隨便分手， 如果你都做到了，即使你不再愛一個人，也只有懷念，而不會懷恨。 愿天下的有情人都能多花一点心思去增进彼此的感情。情人节快乐! 3 comments  
dreamed of racing on 9:14 pm <-------------------------------------------------------> Wednesday, 10 February 2010
haha.. this is hilarious.. happy chinese new year.. =) 1 comments
dreamed of racing on 2:22 pm <-------------------------------------------------------> Tuesday, 9 February 2010 i am single again.. found out that she actually don't trust me at all though she say she do.. we're juz two very different type of people.. i guess what we see others is based on what we see ourself.. she kept thinking that i'll flirt around and will leave her.. i'm not that kind of person.. my good friends know me.. i did lie and hide things from her before, but i did that purely to prevent any misunderstanding.. i did not flirt with my female friends, in fact i didn't even contact them.. but no amount of assurance help.. even though i spent almost all my time with her, stop visiting all the networking sites, let her access my email, PC etc.. nothing help.. then i found out that she secretly testing me but failed.. fail in the sense that she created an account with a sweet looking girl profile but did not find me flirting or wanted to leave her for another girl.. why does she has this mentality? many guys flirt around mean that i will be like them too? until i found out that she actually flirt behind my back when we're together.. then i know why she has this mentality.. cos she's doing it, thus naturally think that i'll do the same.. i am very disappointed in her as i never thought she'll flirt around when we're together.. maybe i trusted her too much.. maybe i'm really the silly one instead..
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dreamed of racing on 3:07 pm <-------------------------------------------------------> Sunday, 7 February 2010 This info was posted in hardwarezone forum. It is about two youtube video clips showing this Pastor Rony of a church called Lighthouse Evangelism in Singapore ridiculing the Buddhism religious. The video were posted on 01 Feb 2010. The news is spreading in the forum. Unfortunately, the religious disharmony in Malaysia could be spreading to Singapore by foolish and irresponsible people. full story here.. every religion have the same purpose.. teaches good, stay away from the bad and leading a happy peaceful life.. everyone is different, thus various religions to suit each individual.. joseph is sadly lack in understanding of buddhism.. anywhere, regardless in church or elsewhere, ignorance lead to misunderstanding, quarrel, and eventually war.. human is of highest intellectual, will so many people round the world follow blindly for more then 2500 years? 0 comments
dreamed of racing on 10:54 pm <-------------------------------------------------------> Saturday, 6 February 2010
 禅宗史上，源律师（律师是佛教律宗解说戒律的和尚）问大珠禅师： 源律师问：“和尚修道，还用功否？” 大珠禅师回答：“用功。” 源律师再问：“如何用功？” 大珠禅师以八字作答：“饥来吃饭，困来即眠。” 源律师不解：“一切人总如是，同师用功否？” 大珠禅师曰：“不同。” 源律师还是不解：“何故不同？” 大珠禅师指出：“他吃饭时不肯吃饭，百种须索；睡时不肯睡，千般计较。所以不同也。” 由此公案可知，人生难得平常心。因此，平常心，实不平常也。作为一个生命个体， 一个人即使是拥有广厦千万间，拥有米粟千万斗，晚上睡觉的时候也不过只需一张床， 白天吃饭的时候再能吃也不过只是几碗米，一日即是一生的写照，人又何须百般计较？ 0 comments
dreamed of racing on 2:42 pm <-------------------------------------------------------> Friday, 5 February 2010 The streets of Singapore are now no longer safe (again)... from professional pranksters.. whom with their meticulous planning and good acting, set up 'traps' for unsuspecting passers-by to fall for their tricks - whereupon they get bewildered, embarrassed, tested... for the presence of any rational calmness, patience and most of all, good humour. 0 comments
dreamed of racing on 10:01 am <------------------------------------------------------->
how many of us are guilty for not being patience and loving toward our parent.. 0 comments
dreamed of racing on 9:47 am <-------------------------------------------------------> Thursday, 4 February 2010 勸君莫惜金縷衣,勸君惜取少年時. 花開堪折直須折,莫待無花空折枝! 0 comments
dreamed of racing on 11:36 am <-------------------------------------------------------> |
Racer: zfek 
一份情讓我們相知相惜 一份真摯的友誼，使我們成為永遠的朋友
                                                     
 stare at the blank + in the center, what do you see?  do you see the dancer turning clockwise or anti-clockwise? "There are some people who meet that somebody that they can never stop loving, no matter how hard they try. I wouldn't expect you to understand that, or even believe it, but trust me; there are just some loves that don't go away. And maybe that makes them crazy, but we should all be lucky enough to end up with someone who has a little bit of that craziness. Someone who never lets go. Someone who cherishes you forever." - Ally McBeal unique moonlighters |
