Sunday, 25 December 2011

0:10 SoYeon T-ara
0:22 Lee Hae Ri Davichi
0:32 JiYeon T-ara
0:41 Min kyung Davichi
2:18 Hyomin T-ara
2:49 Hwa Young T-ara

우리 사랑했잖아 – 티아라 & 다비치
We Were In Love- Davichi & T-ARA
Composed by Cho Youngsoo
Lyrics written by K-Smith
Album: We Were In Love (Single)
Relased: 23 December 2011

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dreamed of racing on 12:13 pm

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Friday, 23 December 2011

Every living system that goes out of balance attempts to right itself. This is true of
your blood pressure and your heart rate but also of the rain forest or a population of
birds. Pressure on the system from one side–such as lack of food, absence of home
ground, or the sudden intrusion of enemies–causes a reaction to shove the system back
into balance. Violence is the most extreme response to imbalance.

When people are asked to make moral decisions, it is the emotional center of the brain
that increases in activity, instead of the rational centers layered higher up in the
cortex. Only after anger emotionally fires us up do we call in the cortex to fashion
reasons, including religious reasons.

If you plot revenge against an evildoer, you are harming yourself: Not because the
thought may come back to injure you, which is superstition, but because negative thinking
reinforces the source of negativity. Darkness adds to darkness. The simple psychological
fact is that the mind grows from habit and use, and as long as you habitually use those
centers that send out blame, anger, retribution, intolerance, and violence, those
centers will be nourished in their growth.

Nurture instead the light that you find inside. Transformation doesn’t come about by
being touched with a magic wand. Habit and use apply here too. If you find even the
smallest reasons for sending out intentions of love, tolerance, forgiveness, and peace,
these centers will grow inside your mind. Spirit counts on this growth.

Adapted from The Deeper Wound: Recovering the Soul from Fear and Suffering,
by Deepak Chopra (Harmony Books, 2001).

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dreamed of racing on 9:33 am

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Sunday, 18 December 2011

There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things
too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree
that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer,
and the youngest son in the fall.

When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they
had seen.

The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said
no it was covered with green buds and full of promise.

The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet
and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.

The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit
full of life and fulfilment.

The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each
seen but only one season in the tree’s life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that
the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life
can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it’s winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty
of your summer, fulfilment of your fall.

Moral:
Don’t let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.
Don’t judge life by one difficult season.
Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come.

assuming and judging is one of the man's worst habit.. all of us have our point of view
and past experiences and tend to look at thing / person based on them.. but past
experiences DOES NOT equal to present situation.. every person / life situation is
different and thus we should not be prejudicious or bias..

buddha taught us to be objective in everything we see and think and not see any
differences.. it is these differences that caused misunderstanding, quarrel, resulting
in wars.. as much as i try to be objective, sometimes i fail and fall back to the bad
habit of assuming..

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dreamed of racing on 11:29 pm

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Tuesday, 13 December 2011

有位男孩很爱女孩，把她当宝一样的捧在手里。
下雨时男孩总是把伞撑在女孩身上，而自己身上都淋湿了却笑得很甜。
女孩很感动，也喜欢男孩这样的宠着她。

那天，他们一起去散步回来路过一个工地，
突然一块碎石从上面掉了下来，
男孩赶紧用身体抱住女孩，
可是突然地，男孩又将女孩的身体背转过来，
自己倒在了地上。
女孩重重地摔在他身上，而石块正好砸在女孩额头，
血流了出来。

女孩这时刻真的很伤心、失望，哭着跑了回家。
男孩打了她好多电话，她没接就把手机关了，
把自己一人关在房里痛苦。

直到被敲门声惊醒，她妈妈告诉她，
男孩被一根铁筋刺穿了肺部，
失血过多离开了人世…..

她疯了一样地跑去医院，男孩躺在白色的病床上，
手里紧紧地握着手机，上面写着这样的一封信息：
“亲爱的，当我看到地上的那条铁筋时，
我已经没有办法为你挡住石头了，亲爱的，疼了吗？”

女孩包着男孩的尸体痛哭着…..

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dreamed of racing on 11:37 pm

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Friday, 9 December 2011

讲电话彻夜不睡　从童年聊到失恋
从朋友聊到有感觉　是这样累积了一切

车顶上看曙光浮现　微醺里捡着枫叶
你吻我的那些瞬间　我真的以为爱是心重叠
两个人就是两个世界　我很晚很晚才发现

想原谅你的改变每个人都会疲倦
心疼好强的你在我眼前忏悔的卑微
才会停不住泪水

想原谅你的沦陷每份爱都有试炼
看你挣脱迷路回来把我抱紧像从前
怎么我好伤悲

总迷上同一个小店　都向往碧海蓝天
我们有最像的品味　在爱里却尝出不同滋味
两个人就是两个世界　我很晚很晚才发现


想原谅－丁当　作曲：五月天 石头　作词：姚若龙　专辑：未来的情人　发行：2011年1月9日

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dreamed of racing on 5:31 pm

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Thursday, 8 December 2011

Death Is an Illusion



One person, Benedict, who reported his near-death experience in great detail,
came close to describing eternity. After seeing shifting images, Benedict became
aware that what he was actually seeing was the Higher Self matrix, a cosmic
pattern of consciousness. Each person has a Higher Self that serves as an
oversoul and also as a conduit back to the source.

Gazing at the matrix of souls, Benedict became aware they were all connected;
humanity formed one being; each of us is an aspect of this wholeness.

Benedict asked the light to reveal the entire universe to him “beyond all human
illusion.” He was told to ride the stream of life. His speed accelerated beyond
the speed of light as he left the solar system, passed through the heart of the
galaxy, and became aware of many worlds and many life-forms. What appeared
to be travel through space was in fact the expansion of his own consciousness.

Benedict describes entire galaxies disappearing into a point, of all life-forms
making their presence known, of a second light that contains every vibration
in the universe.

Passing into the second light, he experienced a profound shift into silence and
utter stillness. He could see to infinity. He was in the void, pre-creation,
and his consciousness was limitless. He was in contact with the absolute, with
unbounded awareness. He perceived all of creation generating itself without
beginning or end. Millions of Big Bangs were constantly generating new universes.
Since he was beyond time, this was happening simultaneously in all dimensions.

After reaching this cosmic epiphany, Benedict’s journey reversed itself,
step-by-step, and he woke up with the unshakable realization that death was an
illusion.

Adapted from Life After Death: The Burden of Proof, by Deepak Chopra (Harmony Books, 2006).

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dreamed of racing on 10:10 am

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Thursday, 1 December 2011

什么是幸福？

最近，“幸福指数”又再引起人们热烈的讨论，什么是幸福？为什么国人的物质生活这么丰厚
仍然不觉得幸福？有一句话每个人都会挂在嘴上：金钱不是万能，但没有钱万万不能，已经说明
了我们生活在这世上，是不能缺少金钱这一样东西，幸福与金钱大大有关。

金钱是人类生活的必需品，因为一切的生活事项都必须靠金钱来实现，但穷人最缺少金钱，
所以他们都要经常面对生活的考验，因为能让穷人感到幸福和快乐就是拥有金钱，穷人不觉得
幸福是理所当然的。

可是，为什么人有了钱还是觉得不幸福？问题在一些人的欲望太高，不知足。当一个人穷时，
最期望只要三餐温饱就心满意足了，但当他的欲望再大时，他便想要更多，这种欲望达不到
或不能满足他时，他便觉得不快乐，并不是他得到的不够，而是他认为那些都应该属于他，
因为别人有，他也要拥有。

一些人有了钱以后，生活宽裕了，从来不会去回想他过去贫困的日子，而是事事都要与人比较，
要比别人更强。一个人感觉幸福不幸福，最主要是他能时时自我省思，他的欲望不要太大，
对自己能力范围以外的事不要强求，知足，如果懂得虽比上不足，比下有余这个道理，他就会
快乐，时刻都感觉自己很幸福。

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dreamed of racing on 8:10 pm

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