Wednesday, 16 October 2013

夜深人靜 往事悠悠 知心人 可遇不可求 感慨唏噓 世間有情 無情 驀然回首 淚已幹




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dreamed of racing on 11:33 pm

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Wednesday, 9 October 2013

看懂这两个故事，你会珍惜对方一辈子！ 

一个朋友的婚礼上，司仪拿出一张百元钞票问在场所有人，谁想要请举手，
大家想怕是司仪想出来整人的花招吧，没人说话。司仪说：我说真的，
想要的请举手。

 终于有人举手了，接着越来越多的人举手了。司仪看了看大家，换了一张旧的
百元钞票，举手的人明显的少了许多。司仪笑了笑了又换了张皱巴巴的有点
破损的旧百元钞票，但是现场举手的人寥寥无几了。司仪请了一位小男孩上台，
并把那张旧钞票放在他的手里。说：因为他一直举着手，下面的人哄堂大笑。
小男孩的脸有些发红，司仪摆摆手示意大家安静，拿出那张新的百元钞票说：
我这张新的跟你那张旧的换换，可以吗？小男孩说：不用了，谢谢叔叔，
新的旧的都一样。

司仪点点头，让小男孩拿着钱下去了，司仪让新郎新娘手拉手走上台，说：
再美丽的容颜，总有老去的一天。再浪漫的爱情，也会随着生活的变化而变化。
就如同我手中的钞票一样，随着时间的变化会慢慢变皱，变旧。但是也像那
小男孩说的新的旧的都是一百元。它的价值不会因为上面的皱褶而改变。不是吗？
希望新人能懂得爱情真正的价值和意义，不要等到容颜老去，或是激情化为平淡的
时候，就忘记了刚才亲口说出的＜爱你一生一世＞的誓言，请你们珍惜对方一辈子。

 新人对望了一下深深的点点头。台下暴发了热烈的掌声大多数的人终其一生，
不停地渴望，不停地追求，不停地夺取，却不知道珍惜手边的幸福，到头来
一无所有，什么也没得到！快乐：像风一样，只是一瞬间的，来的快，去的也快。
痛苦：是来自怀疑和猜测，造成的伤害是一种无法言语的痛真心：是来自清楚的
了解了对方，感受到对方的爱，才会展现出来的表现。



甜蜜：是来自双方的真情交流。只想带给对方欢乐的心，所以在我的生命中，
只要得到一个人的欣赏，一个人的关注，一个人的温柔，一个人的真心真情，
一个人的眼泪就足够了！ 牵了手就不要分手。一辈子说长也不长，说短也不短… 
不要等到失去了才懂得珍惜！珍惜现在所拥有的。 一个南方姑娘和一个北方大汉
成了家，姑娘的口味清淡，大汉无辣不欢。 姑娘常去父母家蹭饭吃。

一天，姑娘的父亲做的菜咸了些，母亲一声不响拿来水杯，夹了一筷子菜，
将菜在清水里荡一下后再入口。忽然，姑娘从母亲细微的动作里领悟到了什么。
 第二天，姑娘在家做了丈夫爱吃的菜。当然，每一个菜里都放辣椒。只是，
她的面前多了一杯清水。大汉看着她津津有味的吃着清水里荡过的菜，眼睛里
有轻微的湿润。 之后，大汉也争着做菜。但是菜里面已经找不到辣椒了。
只是他的面前多了一碟辣酱。菜在辣酱里蘸一下。每一口，他都吃的心满意足。

为了爱，也为了自己，他们一个坚守着一碟辣酱，一个坚守着一杯清水。他们更
懂得怎样坚守一份天长地久，细水长流的爱。 情至深则爱无言，爱不是形式，
无须标榜。爱是绽放幸福的花朵，让每个懂得爱的人心中溢满爱的馨香；爱是
摆渡真情的船桨，让每个有情的人不畏惧生命的漫长。当小小的一盘菜以爱
为作料时，心怎会品尝不出幸福的味道！ 爱，一定需要相濡以沫的支持和理解。

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dreamed of racing on 7:14 pm

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Wednesday, 2 October 2013

 

1980年，老爸買了收錄「你怎麼說」的鄧麗君專輯，送給交往未­久的老媽當生日禮物；
1984年，爸媽帶著三歲的我到中華體育館­欣賞偶像的“15週年演唱會”，當晚，老爸帶著
那張專輯讓鄧麗君­在專輯封面簽了名；1995年，鄧麗君過世了，無論旁人出了多高­價碼
要買下那張鄧麗君親筆親簽名的專輯，老爸始終不願意售出那張­飽含無數甜蜜回憶的大碟。

今年，爸媽到小巨蛋欣賞他們兒子的偶像­--杰倫的演唱會。那曲你怎麼說，勾起兩老
從初次相遇到結婚生子­的種種點滴；那晚，老爸聽到全場年輕人唱著當年的流行金曲，
眼眶­泛淚了，而老媽在鄧麗君出現時流下感動的眼淚，彷彿，偶像復活了­！！
這是向一代巨星致意的極致表現，也是串起兩代情感的絕佳橋樑­，杰倫，謝謝你！！！

我沒忘記你忘記我
連名字你都說錯
證明你一切都是在騙我
看今天你怎麼說

你說過兩天來看我
一等就是一年多
三百六十五個日子不好過
你心裡根本沒有我
把我的愛情還給我

你怎麼說－鄧麗君　作詞：上官月　作曲：司馬亮

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Tuesday, 1 October 2013

BUDDHA’S ADVICE TO MARRIED WOMEN


WHERE DO WOMEN BELONG IN BUDDHISM

In advising women about their role in married life, the Buddha appreciated that the peace and
harmony of a home rested largely on women’s shoulders. His advice was realistic and practica
when he quoted a good number of day-to-day characteristics which a woman should or should
not emulate. On diverse occasions, the Buddha counseled that a wife:

(a) should not harbor evil thoughts against her husband;

(b) should not be cruel, harsh or domineering;

(c) should not be a spendthrift but should be economical and live within her means;

(d) should zealously guard and save her husband’s property and hard-earned earnings;

(e) should always be virtuous and chaste in mind and action;

(f) should be faithful and harbor no thought of any adulterous acts;

(g) should be refined in speech and polite in action;

(h) should be kind, industrious and hardworking;

(j) should be modest and respectful;

(i) should be thoughtful and compassionate towards her husband and her attitude should equate
that of a mother loving and protecting her son;

(k) should be cool, calm and understanding, serving not only as a wife but also as a friend and
adviser to her husband when the need arises.

WHERE DO WOMEN BELONG IN BUDDHISM

In the days of the Buddha, other religious teachers also spoke about the duties and obligations
of a wife towards her husband, particularly stressing the duty of wives in bearing off-spring for
their husbands, rendering faithful service, and providing conjugal happiness and heavenly bliss.
This view is also shared by Confucianism. However, although the duties of a wife towards the
husband were laid down in the Confucian code of discipline, it did not stress the duties and
obligations of the husband towards the wife. The teachings of the Buddha did not have such bias
towards the husbands. In the Sigalovada Sutta, the Buddha clearly mentioned the duties of
a husband towards the wife and vice versa.

A husband should be faithful, courteous and not despising. It is the husband’s duty to hand over
authority to his wife and from time to time, and to provide her with adornments.

Other useful advice was given to women on different occasions and under different circumstances.

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