Wednesday, 5 November 2003

"never regret whatever you'd done.."

ya heard of it somewhere huh.. well, don't get wrong.. i never agree
with the above statement.. people think its kinda cool? i think they're
kind of a fool.. how about "never regret what you have not done?"

its the same theory isn't it.. coz people regretted what they have not
done, thats why they came out with the first statement.. i believe most of
us regretted doing something more then not doing it.. because humans are
emotional and too prone in making mistakes.. we'd done things which
better left undone.. which mean we actually make lesser mistakes if we'd
done nothing in a particular situation.. but again, coz of the first
statement, they lie to themselves.. keep telling themselves not to regret
their decisions.. and continue to do things with their emotions..

to me, its not a matter of whether i regret making a decision or regret
not making.. in either way, i may regret.. coz humans are not perfect..
i make mistakes esp. when im emotional.. and i deeply regretted making some
decisions.. but i didn't tell myself "alrite, juz continue to do what i
feel like and don't regret my decision anymore.." its kind of lying to
myself..

i'm not asking anyone to regret and clinge on to their mistakes, not
forgiving themselves.. we regret when we feel we did something wrong..
juz learn from the mistakes and continue with life.. what's so difficult?
why must we lie to ourselves and everybody that everything we do,
we do it without regrets.. this way, we might not think back and learn
from our mistakes when we really make one.. anyone agreed with the first
statement and disagreed with my posting, pls give me a tag.. i really hope
you could enlighten me..


dreamed of racing on 1:41 am

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