Wednesday, 28 October 2009
![]() The truly wise appear truly foolish to the truly foolish. - Stonepeace Zen Master Ryokan lived a simple and frugal life - all by himself in a small hut at the foot of a mountain. One evening, a thief visited the hut only to discover there was nothing in it to steal. When Ryokan returned, he was 'caught' red-handed. Instead of being angry or alerting the authorities, Ryokan said, 'As you must have come a long way to visit me, you should not leave empty-handed. Please take my clothes as a gift.'Stunned and bewildered, the thief nevertheless took the clothes before sheepishly hurrying off. As Ryokan sat naked while watching the moon, he exclaimed, 'Poor fellow, I wish I could have given him the beautiful moon!' Ryokan challenged the norm by being gracious even to the petty. Shouldn't he admonish him to change his ways? He probably saw no point in punishing him conventionally, but more worth in acknowledging his desperation with touching compassion. In an extended version of the story, he asked the thief to thank him before leaving. When he was caught later, Ryokan was asked to testify the theft, among others. Ryokan answered that he gave his robe to him, that he was even thanked for it. To that, the thief broke down in hot repentant tears. Criminals are often further hardened with punishment. Why not soften their hearts instead? In Buddhism, the moon symbolises the bright and beautiful truth, that is often missed, shrouded by the passing dark clouds of our defilements. Yet, taken for granted, the moon is always there. The truly precious cannot be stolen. It cannot even be given, but only pointed to – for another to see. Even fellow Buddhists miss the moon of truth at times, when they become attached to the finger of words that point to the truth, mistaking the finger for the moon. The thief almost missed the precious truth too, that Ryokan was trying to impart – the truth that the virtues of contentment, generosity and kindness which saved him are priceless, that cannot be stolen - qualities that he should emulate. – Shen Shi'an ![]() ![]() dreamed of racing on 2:52 pm <-------------------------------------------------------> |
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一份情讓我們相知相惜 一份真摯的友誼,使我們成為永遠的朋友
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Hi, Zhong
today, i attended my doctor's funeral. Dr Macus Lim, 37 this yr. he had left behind a wife 8mths pregnant and a 3 yr old kid. He had lead a beautiful life, did many things which i could nvr have done in my life. And he had ended all these on last Sat. He was drowned on a diving trip.
It was shocking. A very smart, intelligent handsome Doctor had left us. it was reali a waste.
i nvr tot his smiles to me were so previous and beautiful till today i and the rest of my colleagues sent him off in Mandai.
it dawn onto me that life is reali that short and fragile. we nvr know when will be us.
so tot of looking ard facebook and see were there any updates on you... i tried searching for 10mins and i still cldnt find you.
Did i did smth wrong or said smth that i shlnt have said or wrote smth that you dun like?
y your name seems to disappear from my frend list?
hmmm...
i guess you must have your own reasons.
whatever it is, i just wanna let you know, i miss you (as a Close Friend) =]
Pls take out there k?
Ling
hi ml, sad to know abt ur doc tragedy.. life is indeed fragile.. its true we often neglect our loves one till we lost them..
we often hear ppl saying "cherish your loves one when they're ard", but we often take them for granted.. how many of us actually remind ourself tat..
im still ard, haven die.. haha.. i'd deactivate my facebk a/c, may or may not reactivate it in the future.. nth to do wif u la.. dun worry.. :)
ask ur hubby jio me out la.. see when ur free for meetup.. it'd been some times since we last met.. u tk care too k.. send my regards to fx..
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